Welcome Back! This month we will explore what the Bible teaches about Relationships.
Do you wish you could build meaningful relationships or make your relationships stronger? Do you struggle in knowing how to be authentic, vulnerable, or loyal? Would you like to expand your social circle in ways that will enrich your life and give you more opportunities to share the Gospel with unbelievers?
Relational connectivity is meant to be deep, mutually satisfying, and supportive. God designed people to live in community - in fellowship with each other. Loving one another is the Lord’s second greatest commandment (Matthew 12:30-31).
Along with His command comes guidelines, power, and inspiration to carry it out. And, for me personally, it’s a good thing because without God’s help I wouldn’t have the relationships I do. So, join me in delving into God’s Word and see how it can help you cultivate stronger relationships.
Are you ready to get started growing closer to God and improving your life?
Let’s go…
November - Relationships
Knowing how to have healthy relationships is a key component of a fulfilling life. Whether you are a spouse, boyfriend/girlfriend, friend, parent, coworker, neighbor, or sibling, you will receive many blessings by learning and practicing God’s way of relating to people.
There are countless benefits of having meaningful relationships, including improvements in health, increased longevity of life, and higher levels of the hormone oxytocin from which comes a sense of wellbeing. [For more, check out: American Heart Association and Mental Health America which speak extensively about the importance of social connectivity.]
The Bible teaches how our lives become more abundant when fellowship is present. Some examples include: support in times of need (Galatians 6:2), companionship (Romans 15:24), comfort (2 Corinthians 7:5-6), personal growth (Proverbs 27:17), and partnership (Philippians 1:3-5).
In this month’s Scripture readings, spend some time meditating on and praying about the lessons God has for you in the areas of love, commitment, forgiveness, and boundaries. Ask a loved one to participate in the reading plan with you. You will enjoy many blessings in doing so.
Love is the foundation of every healthy relationship. It is imperative to understand that love begins with God. We cannot give what we do not have and so to give love, it must first be received by God (1 John 4:19). Without the security of knowing you are fully known and fully loved by your Father in heaven, there will always be an element of self-serving motivations that will undermine your relationships. This week will be an opportunity to receive God's love as expressed in His Word.
What is love, exactly? In these Bible readings, be inspired by how much God loves you and gain a vision from Him of what your relationships can look like.
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Nov 1 |
God is Love |
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Nov 2 |
God’s Children Love Others |
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Nov 3 |
Love Explained |
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Nov 4 |
Put on the New Self |
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Nov 5 |
Love is the Fulfillment of the Law |
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Nov 6 |
Paul’s Affection for the Philippians |
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Nov 7 |
Paul’s Affection for the Romans |
Developing thriving lifelong relationships requires commitment. It is a secret ingredient that transforms “transactional relationships” to “agape friendships.”
Commitment to others begins with devotion to God. Without a core belief that God’s ways are true and right (and that we are meant to worship and follow Him), flawed personal perceptions, feelings, and judgments will dictate decisions. In relationships, that is a recipe for heartbreak. By being devoted first to God, you will have the motivation and power to follow His instructions in how to preserve and reinforce your relationships.
Have you experienced betrayal? Do you find it difficult to make commitments? Do you want to deepen your relationships? This week, let God speak healing and inspiration into your life through these Scriptures.
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Nov 8 |
Paul Surrenders His Rights in order to Serve Others |
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Nov 9 |
Determine to Be at Peace with Your Neighbor |
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Nov 10 |
Support One Another |
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Nov 11 |
The Friendship of Jonathan & David |
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Nov 12 |
Unity |
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Nov 13 |
Pray For & Hold Each Other Accountable |
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Nov 14 |
Love One Another Earnestly |
Relationships are messy; and they can often feel risky. Is there an alternative? Well, yes and no, not really. Some might suggest that it is best to keep people at a distance rather than allow themselves to be hurt. But, this way of life is even more devastating than the pain that can come from hurtful people in your life. Though you are bound to be hurt from time to time, “‘tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all” (Alfred Tennyson).
Knowing that people will hurt and be hurt by each other, God has given many instructions on forgiveness. A life without forgiveness is a life of bitterness, loneliness, and unhappiness.
God wants your life to be full of love. As you read this week’s passages, ask God to heal all the broken places in your mind and heart so that you can receive the fullness of His love, share it freely with others, and soak in the love others have for you.
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Nov 15 |
Care for One Another, Resolve Conflict & Forgive |
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Nov 16 |
Forgive Others & Love Your Enemies |
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Nov 17 |
Don’t Judge Each Other |
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Nov 18 |
Justice & Mercy |
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Nov 19 |
Forgiveness Comes From God |
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Nov 20 |
Pray For & Confess to One Another |
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Nov 21 |
David Seeks Forgiveness After Adultery & Murder |
Relationships are only as strong as they are good. While there are no perfect relationships, some can be healthier than others.
Boundaries allow people to have autonomy while fostering inter-dependence. Not co-dependence where people become overly enmeshed and not independence where people become too separated from each other.
Boundaries include things like mutual respect, freedom of choice, and personal identity. [For more, check out Dr. Henry Cloud’s article: Becoming Separate - Creating Healthy Boundaries.] .
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Nov 22 |
Don’t Judge One Another |
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Nov 23 |
Social Justice |
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Nov 24 |
Guidelines on How to Treat Each Other |
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Nov 25 |
Do justice, love mercy… |
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Nov 26 |
How to Treat Each Other |
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Nov 27 |
Boast Only in the Lord |
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Nov 28 |
Taming Tongue |
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Nov 29 |
Don’t Grumble about each other & yes be yes |
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Nov 30 |
Submit to Authorities |
Healthy human relationships begin with devotion to God. The Lord must always be the center. By seeking Him through Scripture, prayer, and Christian fellowship, you will receive help in building deep, rich, meaningful relationships that nurture you soul.
Keep these Bible readings and refer back to them often so that you can practice and have more love, commitment, forgiveness, and healthy boundaries.
Who in your life has been your best example of love? Tell us about him or her in the Comment section below!
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