Are you feeling disconnected from your wife? Do you long to know her at a deeper level but are not sure where to start?
You are not alone in these feelings, and there is a simple (but challenging) solution. Reading the Bible with your wife can be a powerful way to build a deeper connection and intimacy in your marriage.
I have been married for 30 years, and I am just now understanding that true satisfaction in my marriage is found when I can connect with my wife at a heart level. Ephesians 5:26 encourages husbands to "wash their wives with the Word," and this can be done through the regular reading of Scripture together.
The challenge comes in the business of life, raising families, and pursuing careers, often leaving husbands and wives communicating at a transactional level. This can lead to feelings of emptiness and disconnection.
But there is hope! You might not feel the spark today, but you can regain intimacy and a satisfying marriage.
The solution is simple. Reading the Bible with your wife daily for 5 minutes can help you grow spiritually, promote greater unity, deepen intimacy, and provide guidance for your marriage, giving you deep satisfaction in your marriage.
This article will explore four benefits of reading the Bible with your wife daily.
1. Grow Spiritually
Reading the Bible together on a daily basis can help both you and your wife grow spiritually. Through Scripture, you can be reminded of God's love and His plan for your life, your marriage, and your family.
It also provides healthy challenges to live out your faith in practical ways.
By reading and discussing the Bible together, you and your wife can encourage each other in better understanding God's Word, growing in your relationship with God, and strengthening your faith. Proverbs 27:17 says, "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another."
Incorporating the discipline of Scripture reading into your life together will lead to a deeper and more meaningful spiritual connection between you and your wife.
2. Promote Greater Unity
Reading Scripture together can also promote unity in your marriage. When you read and discuss the Bible, you are working towards a common goal. You are seeking to understand God's will and to apply it to your lives. This can help you to see each other as partners in your journey of faith, rather than as two individuals with separate spiritual lives.
In John 17:21, Jesus prayed for His followers, "that all of them may be one", just as He and the Father are one. By reading Scripture together, you and your wife can work towards this unity that Jesus prayed for. You can become more aligned in your beliefs and more committed to living out your faith together.
3. Deepen Intimacy
Reading the Bible together can deepen your intimacy with your wife through sharing your thoughts, feelings, and insights with each other. This can create a sense of emotional intimacy that can be difficult to achieve through other means.
In Song of Solomon 5:16, the bride says of her groom, "His mouth is sweetness itself; he is altogether lovely. This is my beloved, this is my friend." By reading the Bible with your wife, you can become not just lovers but also friends. You can share your heart in a way that builds trust, respect, and intimacy.
4. Provide Guidance
Reading the Bible together can provide guidance and direction for your marriage. God's Word contains wisdom and principles that can help us navigate the challenges and delight in the joys of married life.
By reading and discussing Scripture together, you and your wife can gain insights and perspectives that can help you make wise decisions and to live out your faith in practical ways.
Psalm 119:105 says, "Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path." By reading the Bible together, you and your wife can find the guidance you need to steer clearly through the ups and downs of married life. You can trust that God's Word will lead you in the right direction and help you to stay on the path that He has set for you.
Reading the Bible together as a couple can be a wonderful way to deepen your spiritual connection with each other and with God.
Practical steps to get started:
- Choose a time and place: Find a time of day when you and your wife can regularly set aside a few minutes to read the Bible together. You may want to choose a quiet spot in your home where you can focus without distractions.
- Choose a plan: Decide on a Bible reading plan that works for both of you. You can choose to read through a particular book of the Bible, the whole Bible, follow a chronological plan, a topical plan (like this one on healthy living), or use a devotional guide. There are many resources available online to help you find a plan that fits your needs.
[One place you may want to start is with a brief general overview of the Bible: Bible Recap 101: Your Essential Guide to the Bible's Core Storyline.] - Read and discuss: You may want to take turns reading aloud and pause to discuss what you've read. Ask each other questions, share your thoughts and insights, and apply what you've read to your lives.
- Pray: End your time together with prayer. Ask God to help you apply what you've learned from the Bible and to guide your marriage in His will.
Places to start reading as a couple in the Bible:
- The Gospel of John: This book is a great starting point for exploring the life and teachings of Jesus. It is full of rich imagery and deep theological truths that can help you grow in your faith as a couple.
- The Book of Proverbs: This book is a collection of wise sayings that offer practical guidance for daily living. Reading and discussing Proverbs together can help you and your wife grow in wisdom and understanding.
- The Book of Ephesians: This book is full of practical advice for Christian living, particularly in the context of marriage. It can help you and your wife better understand your roles and responsibilities in your marriage and how to love and serve each other in a Christ-like way.
- The Psalms: This collection of prayers and hymns can be a source of comfort and inspiration for couples in all stages of marriage. Reading and discussing the Psalms together can help you and your wife deepen your spiritual connection and find strength in God's promises.
Takeaway
Reading Scripture daily with your wife can have many benefits for your marriage. It can help you and your wife grow spiritually, promote unity, deepen intimacy, and provide guidance. As you seek to live out your faith together, make reading and discussing the Bible a priority in your marriage.
Do you want to learn more about the Bible or how to become a Christian? Check out these articles:
- Bible Recap 101: Your Essential Guide to the Bible's Core Storyline
- How to Become a Christian in 2 Life-Saving Steps
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Do you live in the Concord, NH area? We invite you to check us out. Grace Capital Church is located at 542 Pembroke Street in Pembroke, NH.
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